I “Stumbledupon” your blog tonight and read your last entry. I can empathize with your thoughts. You don’t know me and nor should you even listen to me but, there’s always a “but” isn’t there, you said something telling in your entry. You said something to the effect of “perhaps you are where you should be”. You are. It may not make any sense but it does in the big picture. May I recommend a book both of you could read? It’s call “The Four Agreements” by Don Miguel Ruiz. It’s a really good book. I’m reading another by him called “The Mastery Of Love” It may come off a little metaphysical but you’ll gain some insights from both. Stay the course.